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Any new revelations? They’ll come over, assert their straightness, but then let me stroke them. These scenes are typically not held in studio spaces, which can make them feel different from other organized events. These events often take place in private homes, specified spaces, or even parks. I’ve also noticed it’s more than just race and body types.

For someone new to the scene, it can be unnerving because you’re often showing up at an unfamiliar location rather than a dedicated venue. The orgasm was unlike anything I’d ever experienced before – it was intense, almost out-of-body, with uncontrollable shaking. Before that, I used to organize small groups myself, hosting 10-11 people at my apartment.

It’s fascinating how different each experience can be. What are your thoughts?

A: “This is a fascinating aspect of bate clubs.

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I’ve noticed that when the space is open, without many separate rooms or cubby holes, groups interact more. However, once you reach a certain number of people, the layout becomes less important as interaction naturally increases due to the crowd size.

Location is a double-edged sword. It’s filling a social void that the pandemic has left behind.”

Q: Do you have a memorable bate story to share?

A: “I had an incredible one-on-one experience with a guy I met.

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Q: Which bate clubs have you been to?

A: I’ve visited Seattle (Rain City Jacks), New York (NY Jacks), Detroit (Motor City Jacks), Denver, Portland (Stumptown Jacks), Los Angeles (Lax Jaxx), DC (Capitol Jacks), and London (Bator Bro).

Q: How did you first discover the world of organized bate events?

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Venues in known LGBT areas make people feel more comfortable, but you miss out on a large group of guys who consider themselves straight. My ex and I even threw larger parties with up to 35 people in hotel rooms. The choice of location – whether it’s a house, hotel, or dedicated venue – makes a huge difference in who attends and the overall vibe.”

Q: You mentioned diversity.

It was fascinating and even more of a turn-on. These men might avoid gay establishments to maintain discretion or because they’re in relationships. It was a completely new experience for me, and I think it really accelerated my journey in this world. The level of intimacy and comfort was unparalleled. It was incredibly hot!

The bar scene has changed – people don’t chat up strangers like they used to. He got me to that point with my hands behind my back. That first intense session really opened my eyes to the possibilities.”

Q: How’s your bate journey going?