Gay pup bondage

In pup play, these acts of affection are a way to show care and appreciation.

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Who does puppy play?

Anyone can be a pup! You focus on the play, being pampered, and if you want to just lay down and do nothing— as long as your trainer lets you— you do you!

Pup play is like a “mental reset” button.

They also often look so badass! And what makes a good pup?

As always, you have questions, and we have answers. Pup play brings out that kind of raw, unfiltered energy. That’s the beauty of it— it’s so versatile. Why is puppy play so popular?

‘Cause it allows people to explore different sides of themselves in a fun, non-judgmental way.

Are furries and pups the same?

Not exactly. In this article, I’ll take you through what pup play’s like, why gays enjoy it, and how you can explore this kink in a comfortable and safe kennel!

Understanding Pup Play

At its heart, pup play is about taking on a puppy-like persona. If you’re wondering what the hype is all about, I used to wonder that too.

Did you nod your head “yes”? Being able to play, nuzzle, sniff, chase and fuck in a ‘mosh’ space (an intentionally uninhibited or frenzied play space) is described as incredibly liberating. As time has gone on, it’s become more social and more about the community that’s fostered. The alphas look after the other pups and handle the care and organisation of the pack, taking on some of the responsibilities of the handler.

Betas – Members of the pack who support the alphas in a ‘deputy’ role.

Pups – Regular members of the pack.

Omegas – Pups who take on a completely submissive role, not just to the handler and the alphas/betas, but to the entire pack.

Pups will often choose a dog breed they feel represents them, and they’ll wear a collar with a tag on it as part of their identity.

You know, to get into character like superheroes in movies do. Each pack has at least one alpha pup. Pup play, for many gay men, is an escape from the day-to-day.

Does this sound like something you’ll enjoy? You can do it for the fun, the power dynamics, or the sense of identity it brings.

The beauty of pup play, for me, is its flexibility.

Pups (doing pup play) roleplay behaviors associated with dogs.

4. The wonderful thing about pup play is that if you ask 10 pups what it looks like for them, you’re going to get 10 different answers!” ~ Pup Jaxx

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Confidence and Lowering Inhibitions

Did you know that wearing a pup hood or adopting a pup persona is surprisingly empowering?

In pup play, it often means “ownership.”

It’s a physical manifestation of the relationship between a pup and their handler.

This can be an emotional process— filled with bliss as it represents loyalty and trust. But it can also hold emotional weight. Talk to your partners about your HIV protection strategies, whether that’s condoms, PrEP or maintaining an undetectable viral load.

They make the encounter sexier.

Remember, gear should always come with consent.